Are you better off being single, part 2
I've got a quindecile with Venus/Uranus. I definitely relate to some of this."The Uranian individual has a strong need to forge their own path, and sometimes there is just no room to accommodate another person during the journey. There is a stubborn quality to Uranus -- as well as Aquarius, the fixed sign which this planet rules -- such that a person following the Promethean call does not want to "bend" for the sake of a partner. When you are obsessed with a singular vision and are committed to pursuing it at all costs, intimacy often falls by the wayside. Or if you are in a relationship, you may be so detached -- with your mind focused on your passion project -- that your partner would have to be so self-sufficient that your absence is tolerated or even appreciated.
You may feel so easily stifled or smothered that only an equally independent person would be an appropriate partner. You don't want to be controlled, or to have emotional demands made upon you.
Some possible chart patterns to look out for:
- Uranus in hard aspect to, or conjunct, the Sun, Moon, Venus or ruler of the Seventh House
- Uranus in the Seventh House or Aquarius on this house's cusp
- Some of these key planets in Aquarius
- Although I don't see the Eleventh House as closely associated with Uranus and Aquarius in the way that I combine Neptune/Pisces/Twelfth, a stellium of planets in the Eleventh can indicate an individual who values friendships and participation in groups more than romantic partnership.
