I'm loving the Neith on Synastry blog.
This entry in particular is very interesting.
One caveat here is her Moon is conjunct Chiron in Taurus and square her Sun/Mercury in Aquarius. So their relationship may be more painful in subtle ways than most where the Moons are conjunct because being together will trigger her areas of wounding.
I have been wondering about this topic of late: how to pick someone with regards to synastry. If your Saturn sets off a lot of issues, what should you do? If you date someone around your age, they'll set off the same issues in you that you already have. Are you better off picking someone whose Saturn doesn't connect with you at all? Probably not- supposedly even some hard aspects help and are more common in a relationship than not having any.
My current theory (mentioned over here) is to try to pick someone based on approximate birth year whose Saturn is likely to line up better with less troublesome parts of your chart. If I have no Saturn/Mercury or Saturn/Jupiter issues, perhaps picking someone who lines up with those (or trines them or something) would be better than someone who's going to hammer on my Sun/Chiron conjunction, or lines up with my own Moon/Saturn square somewhere.
Any astrologer-types have an opinion on that?
In the comments to that post...
When a person has this kind of built-in conflict in their natal chart -- i.e, her Sun-Moon square -- and the partner has an aspect to one of the planets, it's inevitable that the partner is going to be involved in the person's inner conflict in some way.
I have a Moon-Saturn square. Someone I've been fairly close to over the past year has the Moon opposite mine, which is the perfect complement and would be very nice if this were a romantic liaison. However, that means his Moon also is square my Saturn. I've noticed that whenever transiting planets have triggered my Moon-Saturn square, he was invariably the one who delivered the pain, so to speak.
Likewise, he has a Sun-Saturn square in his natal chart, and my Mercury is exactly conjunct his Sun, which is a pretty nice connection. However, that means my Mercury is square his Saturn, and so not only do I tend to rub his nose in this particular wound, but when he has a transit to this square, I tend to be involved, and not in a pleasant way.
This is a really tough position, but unfortunately, it's going to happen no matter who you're with. So you might as well find a partner who's willing to help you carry the baggage. This couple sounds like a pretty good match.
