More on change at Planet Waves
I don't really know what to say on this one, but I liked some of the quotes from it:
"Your entire identity resembles an earthquake simulator.
You may think of yourself as distinctly one thing. Actually, you are very much on the edge, nearly all the time. I could see wanting to be a little more one way or the other, given this. In other words, given that you’re so accustomed to being on the edge, I could see wanting to retreat into one way of being to the exclusion of another. It’s quite a trick for a human to learn how to integrate themselves.
Change is the purpose and theme of your life now, and the truth is you ain’t seen nothing yet.
So I suggest you hang loose. Like, really loose. The gods of change are upon you and I assure you, based on what you’re describing, it could be worse — a lot worse, and I’m going to cast a little spell and make sure it stays this way (unless you have some motive to indulge in some extra chaos). Chaos, however, is mostly about resisting what is obviously necessary; and what is obviously necessary is that you need some progress and some pick-up-and-go and some gitalong and (as you suggest) a man."