Saturn in synastry.

Heh. Neith, like me, has a LOT of Saturn shit.

In related news, I'm reading Elsa again and the comments here get interesting. Especially the chick who's tired of Elsa talking about her boyfriend all the time. (To which I say, well, I've been there and done that at times in my life, but it is her blog and she can write what she wants, and she writes about relationships, and what's under her nose right now...so...skip reading for awhile?) But really, here come the Venus Saturn folks...

• "Yes, I believe Love is great and it is the highest joy one can experience. Will I have it in any lasting form?

  No.

  And as a Scorp w/ Cancer Moon and a Cancer Descendent… you can just imagine how I ache for a place to rest my head and call home…and feel safe…and protected… and unconditionally loved.

  But alas, I have Saturn opposition Venus, an empty 7th house & my Venus is in Sag.

  Apparently the universe doesn’t think I need a stable, lasting relationship. Um, OK. Thanks Universe! Too bad I’m too sensitive to endure this.

  It’s brutal. I have intense, very short love affairs that I unconsciously destroy or the Universe destroys for reasons unbeknownst to me.

  It’s fate.

  And yet, I need love like I need air…but it just slips right through my fingers…
  And it’s too painful to keep starting over since I’m apparently doomed due to the Saturn opposition."

• "You are not doomed..What you are looking for you just haven’t found yet…I have always thought saturn venus contacts showed stability..But stability doen’t come easy and all of us have a different definition of it.

  My version of it is owning my own place that I can alway run home too if things get weird even if its only for a day..IT WASN’T A MAN PROVIDING THAT FOR ME EVEN THOUGH I ALWAYS THOUGHT IT Was..Even when I had that I NEVER FELT SAFE..

  You just need to really think about what it is your looking for. You are the only one who can make you feel safe..That really is the truth…"