Uranus and commitment-o-phobia
What if you want to marry someone with Uranus in the seventh house? Answer: you'd better want your own space, 'cause they're going to want theirs. And if you both do, then that's all right.
Now, looking at my chart, I didn't have any obvious connections to this...but it's pretty much how I have dated. There was always some reason or other why the guy couldn't be around 24-7 (usually he had to be out of town a lot, or lived out of town, or was a Capricorn). And I liked it. At one point the ex who lived out of town stayed at my place for a month, and I was feeling weirded out by it. Not to mention that I fall for people rarely and when I do it's like lightning struck.
Well, I started reading Astrology Of Intimacy, Sexuality & Relationship. I have attempted to read Noel Tyl before and mostly I just can't read his charts terribly well l (I gave up on reading Vocations entirely, since all he does is talk about other people's charts and not about how to relate the information to anyone else) and had to give up. But in this book, things were more clear, and he really talks about the psychology of things, how upbringing has to do with what you want/need in relationships, etc. I'm not done with it yet, but I'd recommend people getting it.
But anyway, he talks a LOT about the quindecile. A lot a lot a lot, and I was all, "what the hell is that?" I usually ignore anything beyond conjunction/square/opposition/trine/sextile, and occasionally pay attention to the inconjunct. Beyond that it gets freaking confusing, not to mention hard to spell.
But once I got home and looked up what it is, it makes a lot more sense. It's a planetary connection that is just outside the opposition (i.e. close but not quite), BUT it represents obsession and an area of extreme focus. Interesting...
What quindeciles do I have?
- Venus quindecile Uranus- 13 deg. difference.
- Jupiter quindecile Neptune- 16 deg. difference.
- Saturn q midheaven axis, exact at 15 degrees.
I think I may end up writing more on this later....
