What do you do with a freaking T-square?

I'm listening to the archives here. Guess what show I'm on?

"The planet that squares the opposition is the key planet, but what is happening is that there is an empty point in opposition to that key...and there is a driving force to fill the emptiness. This sometimes is like a vacuum in a person's life that they constantly try to fill; or a whirlpool that commands their attention.
In any event, there is a powerful need to find a source from the missing leg to bring stability into the person's life, and this can drive a person like an obsession.
You have a T-square in fixed signs, but with Taurus empty. I know of several people with this T-square who consantly try to seek sensory gratification....one gentleman does it with food, and at last count he weighed close to 400 pounds. With some people, there is a pull towards a person or people with strong qualities of the missing sign....such as a Taurus friend or relative in this case.
Ultimately, you need to find and integrate the missing sign's nature into your psyche themselves. Transits and progressions will give you clues and teach you a lot of what they need."

"The Apex planet in a Fixed T-Square will reveal where the individual is most inflexible. The opposing sign of the Apex planet, although still a Fixed sign, can help to force the individual to find a compromise. The Apex Planet's sign will guide the individual based on the focal point (Taurus => worth of self and mastery, Leo => worth of creativity and spirit, Scorpio => worth through vulnerability and trust, Aquarius => worth through humanity and brotherhood). It will usually involve another person tapping into the individual's needs during an opposing transit aspect that will create enough discomfort or clash to cause the individual to reach that compromise. With a Fixed T-Square, the compromise between the two realms may only be reached after a very ugly confrontation. Fixed signs, remember, are focused on and maintaining self-worth. The Apex planet of a Fixed T-Square will eventually take action in order to reduce tension - something that Fixed signs are perfectly happy to do so long as they feel that they are in total control of the situation. The Fixed T-Square that learns how to incorporate flexibility into the decision making process receives the best rewards."