6 posts tagged “saturn in seventh house”
Seriously...that is gonna be a hard nut to crack. I really hope he does therapy. He certainly comes off as pleasant, but if you tick him off, watch out, and he's going to be clenched so hard that his ass could make diamonds when it comes to love and softness.
Poor bastard. That's just an ugly T-square there.
"The soldier and I were contemplating getting together and he told me in no uncertain terms what he would and would not do - what he was and was not interested in. He DEFINED this.
He specifically told me he did not want to be in another failed relationship or marriage. He meant in his life. He was adamant in saying he would rather be alone for the rest of his life than fail in another relationship. He said this was not a light thing to him and he would appreciate my understanding this.
If you think I responded, “Deal me in,” I did not! I listened carefully and retreated for WEEKS. It took me at least a month to think things through, check my feelings, discuss things with my friends, etc. before I came to the conclusion I wanted to go forward. We did go forward, we have kept our word(s) to each other and our relationship is… well I believe it to be impenetrable.
I am telling you this to let you know that had he not been specific and uncompromising, I don’t think we’d be where we are. Had he said, “We’ll get together and see how it goes…” I think it might have gone differently with a flighty type like me but as it was I made the commitment.
So you gals, if you want the commitment, ask for it because your man might be like me. It might take him awhile, it sure took me awhile but if you refuse to define this (Saturn) you’ve got no chance."
Terrible Saturn in my 7th house. Sounds pretty typical. I don't have Saturn in seventh but it kicks my seventh, so most of this I could agree with.
Hi, ive never posted one of messags before, so I hope it lands in the right place. Ive always so badly wanted to contact someone else who has saturn in their 7th house. I was in my late 20's when I started wondering what the hell was going on in my life. Instinctively It felt as if I was not allowed a relationship. Every relationship experience I had seemed utterly fated. As I got older I did everthing from counsellors to self-help books to leaving it all to fate. Ive got to point many times where I was happy being by myself because everytime I tried to have a relationship, it ended up in so so much pain. Massive problems! that would leave my friends gasping at my bad luck. People just do not know what to say to me anymore. Im all for taking on responsibility for personal choices ect, but I later found I had Saturn in my 7th house.
Im now nearly 42 and in fact in some respects its got worse. In my late 30's I developed a terrible disease of the bladder that makes sex in relationships almost impossible. The men I meet (who say they dont mind) tend to have lots of problems themselves which causes another lode of insurmountable obstacles. I get repeatedly dumped, deserted, lied to and messed about. Situations that look so promising on the suface are fraught with complications underneith. As a result I typically spend years on my own recovering from relationships, each time the recovery takes longer. It takes along time to get to the point where im really ok again.
